After you and your potential partner finally decide to meet in person, you will probably be excited, as well as a bit anxious.  Here are some questions to consider that will hopefully bring more joy and fun to your first date.  

  • How do you dress on your first date?
  • How do you look overall?
  • Are you relaxed?
  • Are you anxious?
  • What makes you anxious on your date?
  • What are you really anxious about during the date?
  • Are you able to stay in the present emotionally?
  • What is holding you back from being in the present emotionally?
  • Are you able to be sensitive to your date’s physical needs?
  • Are you able to be sensitive your date’s emotional needs?
  • Are you able to be flexible with topics for sharing?  
  • Are you able to show interest in listening?
  • Are you able to cheer each other up?
  • Are you able to focus on the here and now?
  • Are you able to be yourself on your first date?
  • Are you able to be your best self on your first date?
  • Do you feel joy and light-heartedness about this encounter?
  • Are you able to screen out the worries in your head during the date?
  • Are you able to trust you instincts throughout the process?
  • Are you able to just be in the moment?
  • Are you able to be sensitive to your own physical needs?
  • Are you able to be sensitive to your own emotional needs?
  • Are you able to be aware of and respect your own feelings and your own limits or boundaries?

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